You know, The Head and the Heart business but the way you think, is the way you feel And the way you feel is the way you think, For different people. Different things. Run fast for some people their thoughts today, largely because of the type of education for most people. Their thoughts run ahead of their emotions. But still, there is a sizable percentage of people for whom their emotions run ahead of their thoughts. Now, what's on acts is asking, is there are situations that you don't wish to be in but emotions are Tangled Up. So thought keeps going there annoyingly. You keep walking in the direction. What you need to understand these thought is agile today, my thoughts is she is the most wonderful person Tomorrow, if she does something that I don't like immediately, my thoughts says, she's no good. But if my emotions have gone ahead with this wonderful person, Emotions are not that agile, they cannot turn around. So quickly, it's a little sappy, it takes time. In the meantime, you struggle because thought says this is not okay, but emotion is still
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And thank you. Now, what do I do about this? Don't try to control your emotions or thoughts. Because the very nature of your mind is such. That I don't want to think about this person means that's the only person I'm going to think about for the rest of my life. So when compulsive thoughts and emotions come first and foremost thing that you do is you simply see them for what they are. You don't try to resist them the moment you resist, they will multiply in this mind, you don't have subtraction and division, you only have addition and multiplication. So what you need to do one thing is Just understand that thought and emotion or just a recycle of the data that is already there. Something that you remember, it is just that memory is little smelly, it just keeps coming. You're just have to see like that little distance from that. It is like you are jammed in a traffic jam. You were going to the airport. You got stuck in a traffic jam. How much anxiety. And struggle. You hack then somehow you got there and then you got into the airplane and you took off from up there, when you look down, how nice the traffic jam, Simply because there is a little distance, still the same traffic jam but because there is a distance suddenly there is nothing to it. Similarly, with your thought and emotion a little bit of practice to create a little distance from your physiological processes and your psychological processes come. But if you try to handle individual thought and emotion they will multiply thousandfold.
