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| Sadhguru |
So the word marriage might have acquired a very negative.
All right, around it in certain parts of the world. Now Because they have some sense of Very juvenile freedom.
Marriage is a bad thing when you're a young person. But when you were a child, it was a great thing.
Yes, or no. When you were a little child, you are for the institution of marriage.
When you're 18, you're against it. When you're 45 again, you're for it.
Isn't it sad when you were children, did you not wish that your father mother and a stable situation existed around? You was that not a natural longing? So when you are five your for marriage, not your own somebody else's,
When you're 18, you're against because right now your physical bodies. In a certain mode. Marriage. Looks like a bondage chain. You want to do things in a certain way but slowly as the body weakens once again, you wish there was somebody with you in a committed way, isn't it usual? This is a very, a juvenile feeling that when I'm strong, I don't need anybody and I become weak. I wish there was somebody with me. No, I think partnership should be formed when you're at the peak of your well-being, isn't it? So not when you're Fallin, when you fall in, if you seek a partnership you will make bad Partnerships. Desperate Partnerships. When you are, well. When you are the peak of your life that is when you must make a partnership which will take you through all those ups and downs.
But now, the problem is the partnership itself is taking me down. That is a complaint. Partnership itself is taking you down. That is, because of the way you are. No, no, I'm okay. It's other person. That is what the problem. Is it here? That is. What is problem with you? You think you are. Okay. And somebody else is wrong. That is the basics somewhere, once in a weight. So happened, completely disillusioned people met and something happened. Maybe the need to break. It may happen. But for every women fancy breaking, the relationships is not a good thing above all, you must understand as body, as mind has memory. Physical body has its own memory, This is called run an abundant you heard of the word like this Indian people run on a panda. Ronan, banned amines. It's the physical memory.
Physical body itself, has its memory if it goes through seven. Experiences with remember, And body responds and reacts in many ways, in future, based on this memory physical intimacy. She's always cause this memory in a big way. And if you imprint with too many memories, and there is a certain level of confusion in the body, you work out everything in your life, still, you will find you. Do not know what it means to be Blissful. There's no, He's? That is not easy in your system because there is a complex impressions of memory in your system, and it can confuse the body in such a way that it will cause much trouble to one's life. You must see, first of all, whether for you as a person is it, such an important thing or is it just a passing thing? I would say, for at least 25 to 30 percent of the people, they need, not even go in that direction because it is just a passing interest.
For another 30 to 40 percent. It may be a little more long. They get into this for 10 years, 12 years, they feel good after that. They think it's a burden. There are some people for whom the need is very strong. That they need this another 25 30 % needed for a much longer period. They definitely need to get into such arrangements and whatever.
